The 30 Best Couples' Sex Toys to Gift (and Enjoy) in 2024, Based on *Very Steamy* Reviews

We’ll let you in on a secret: Any sex toy is a couples’ sex toy if you try hard enough (or just get creative enough). And there's a universe of adult selections to find both in stores and online—from luxe niche brands like Lelo and Dame to trusted big names, such as Spencers and Pure Romance—all with discreet mailing. Options run the gamut, from insertable vibrators and clitoral stimulators—like the Ida couples’ vibrator ($179) from Lelo and the Womanizer stimulator ($199) from Lovehoney—to penis rings. So, whether you’re shopping for a Valentine’s Day gift for her or him, anniversary gift or just ‘cause, we tapped a couple of sex experts and vetted thousands of user reviews to source a list of the 30 best couples’ sex toys to enjoy.

• Kiana Reeves is Chief Content Expert for Foria, a sexual wellness company known for its CBD-powered lubes and organic arousal oil. Reeves is a certified somatic sex educator and sexological bodyworker, embodiment and intimacy coach, certified full spectrum doula and mother. For more than 10 years, she has been an educator and leading voice in the sexual wellness movement.
• Soumyadip Rakshit is the founder of British sexual wellness firm MysteryVibe, maker of an innovative collection of vibrators. He has a Ph.D. in biomedical engineering and has worked with urologists, menopause specialists, OB-GYNs and pelvic floor therapists to create products.

We sought out recommendations from a few of our trusty PureWow editors who have personally tested some of the devices below. Additionally, we consulted sex experts, investigated designs and pored through thousands of customer reviews, paying careful attention to the materials, ease of use, battery life, speeds, modes, waterproofing and functionality to sort out the best couples' sex toys for pleasuring you both.

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Remember when we said that any sex toy is a couples' sex toy? Well, that's true; the sky is the limit. "Technically speaking, a couples sex toy is one that targets both partners together, whether simultaneously or not." says sex educator Reeves. "Take a couples vibrator, for example—it can be inserted into the vagina during penetration and enhance sensation for the clitoris, G-spot, and the penis at the same time. To enhance couple’s play even further, I recommend adding Foria Sex Oil with CBD ($44), designed for people with penises and vaginas, into the mix." From goddess pleasure balls to targeted vibrators, all types of toys are available. But truth is, only you and your partner know what's actually best for you, considering each other's comfort levels and limitations. Here are some points to consider when shopping for a couples' sex toy:

• Function: Are you thinking this is something you'd like to both enjoy simultaneously (such as our top overall toy, the Lelo Tor 2 Couples' Ring, $129) or one that one of you will use while the other person watches? Or are you thinking you'd like a device that can be used all sorts of different ways?
• Material: Silicone, glass, metal or some combination of these are all on the table—and keep in mind if you'll be wanting a silicone device that's waterproof, in case tub/shower time is an option.
• Size: From small fingertip add-ons that buzz to large wand massagers, there is a size you'll feel comfortable using. Note to frequent flyers: We highly recommend choosing a device to help you relax into whichever time zone you find yourself in.
• Ease of Use: Want a simple pair of on-off buttons? Or do you prefer a toy that's app-enabled, and can be controlled remotely? Browse Lelo, We-Vibe and other design-forward makers to familiarize yourself with the latest toy tech, to see if it interests you.
• Choose the Right Lube: Have a good lube ready to go when your toy arrives, and be sure that your favorite formula is approved for use with whatever toy you've chosen. According to Astroglide, lubes containing silicone are believed to stay slippery longer, but may break down silicone toys over time.

You might be surprised at how receptive your partner is to experimenting with a toy—lots of couples are using sex toys to enhance their experience and communication. "We’re starting to see some of the taboo around the topic lifted, which is a wonderful thing," says Reeves. "The pandemic definitely gave us all some extra time to focus inward and think about what we want and what brings us the most pleasure in and out of the bedroom – and now, a lot of the stigma around sharing those thoughts and feelings with a partner has lessened." Sex toy brand We-Vibe conducted a study of 1,000 men and women between the ages of 35 and 55 and found that 49 percent of couples that use vibrators together report communicating often, whether about sex toys or other topics. Added bonus: There's evidence that using toys together increases couples' ease with giving and getting direction from their partner in bed.

Soumyadip Rakshit, founder of British sexual wellness firm MysteryVibe, suggests you "ease partners into the conversation about sex toys by sharing well-researched articles, especially in reputable outlets." Or you can simply say: "I was thinking about trying this toy with you and wanted to know what you thought." Anything that keeps the focus on mutual pleasure and playful curiosity is a great way to introduce toys in general or a specific one.

Finally, a great way to get inspired is to browse online superstores like Lovehoney and PinkCherry that sell all the best brands and have a steady stream of irresistible sales.