ComScore

Prince Harry Always Thought He’d Get Married Before His Brother: “I Wanted It So Badly”

But that's not what happened

PureWow editors select every item that appears on this page, and some items may be gifted to us. Additionally, PureWow may earn compensation through affiliate links within the story. All prices are accurate upon date of publish. You can learn more about the affiliate process here.

Prince Harry and Meghan Markle at their wedding in 2018
TOLGA AKMEN/AFP via Getty Images

It’s been almost six years since Prince Harry and Meghan Markle exchanged vows at St. George’s Chapel, and nearly 13 since Prince William and Kate Middleton were wed. But according to the Duke of Sussex, 39, he thought the order would’ve been reversed.

In his memoir Spare, Prince Harry revealed that he always imagined he’d be married and have children before his older brother.

prince harry kate middleton wedding
Anwar Hussein/Getty Images

Why, exactly? According to the memoir, King Charles was already 35 by the time Harry was born, but Harry wanted to be a younger and more active father to his own kids.

“I’d always assumed I’d be the first to be married, because I wanted it so badly,” he wrote, referring to the preparations required for Prince William and Kate Middleton’s wedding in 2011.

As we know, the Duke of Sussex didn’t meet his wife, Meghan Markle, until 2016—five years after the now-Prince and Princess of Wales celebrated their wedding. Harry and Meghan dated for two years before marrying in the spring of 2018. (They had their first child, Archie, in 2019; Will and Kate had their first son, George, in 2013.)

meghan markle prince harry prince william kate middleton
Max Mumby/Indigo/Getty Images

In the memoir, Harry also addressed the rumors that he gifted Prince William Princess Diana’s famous sapphire engagement ring when he realized the relationship between William and Kate was headed for marriage. “Absolute rubbish: None of it ever happened,” the Duke of Sussex wrote, noting that his brother had their late mother’s ring all along.

Keep the stories coming, Harry.

Stay up-to-date on every breaking royal family story by subscribing here.

Royal Family Releases Striking Photo of Queen Camilla During Extremely Important Solo Outing



Editorial Team

Our editorial team works with a variety of writers and experts across all fields to produce thoroughly researched stories that resonate with you. Our mission is to be that well-informed best friend who's always got your back, whether you need advice on dealing with toddler tantrums or the best no-chafe workout shorts to buy.

news
/ Danielle Long
Meghan Markle Shares Rare Photo of Herself As a Girl Scout And I Can't Get Over This One Detail
news
/ Danielle Long
Netflix’s #1 Movie Has a 94% on Rotten Tomatoes—and It’ll Have You Laughing Till It Hurts
news
/ Danielle Long
Selena Gomez Is Channeling Meghan Markle With This Major Spring Beauty Trend
news
/ Danielle Long
Chrissy Teigen Just Shared a New Pic of Her Youngest—And This Baby’s Got *Major* Cool Kid Energy
news
/ Danielle Long
Meghan Markle Opens Up About Alarming Health Condition on New Podcast: 'I Was Scared'
news
/ Nakeisha Campbell
I Noticed an Interesting Detail About King Charles & Queen Camilla's Body Language in Italy
news
/ Danielle Long
Meghan Markle Sends a Message After As Ever Orders Are Cancelled—And It Includes a Sweet Surprise
news
/ Danielle Long
Michelle Williams’s Airline Nightmare Incident Has Everyone Agreeing on This One Thing
news
/ Nakeisha Campbell
Mike White Just Teased the Location for ‘The White Lotus’ Season 4 (& It's Not What You Think)
news
/ Danielle Long
Kate Middleton's Daily Beauty Routine Was Just Revealed—and It Seriously Took Me by Surprise
news
/ Rachel Bowie
Prince William Just Hired Princess Diana’s Divorce Lawyers—But It’s Not for the Reason You Think
news
/ Danielle Long
'White Lotus' Star Reacts to Character's Death and Reveals Never-Before-Seen BTS Moments
news
/ Rachel Bowie
Um, Kate Middleton’s Iconic Roller Disco Shirt Showed Up on eBay This Week—with a $100 Asking Price
news
/ Clara Stein
A Serious Prince George Decision Is on the Horizon, According to a New Royal Report
news
/ Danielle Long
A 'Dawson's Creek' Reunion with Katie Holmes, Michelle Williams and More May Be on the Horizon
news
/ Clara Stein
Kensington Palace Posts Prince William and Kate Middleton Videos Just Days Apart—But Hers Is a Much Bigger Deal
See More