13 Mind-Blowing Long-Distance Sex Toys for Couples

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These days absence most definitely makes the heart grow fonder. From app-controlled accessories that make foreplay from afar just as flirty to travel-safe massagers with built-in UV light to sanitize on-the-go, self-pleasure whether you’re near or far from your boo has never been easier (or more fun). Here, the 13 best long-distance sex toys for couples that might not be in the same place but want to to that same place together.

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1. we-vibe Moxie

Best for Foreplay

Slip this cute little accessory into your panties and let your partner enable the intensity of your sensation through the accompanying app. It is 100 percent waterproof and is whisper-quiet. The ten-vibration settings will get things heated up before you can really get into some more play later in the evening.

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2. we-vibe Jive

Best for G-Spot Stimulation

The bulb of this vibrator sits comfortably inside of you to hit your G-spot for strategic stimulation. With a thoughtful lover controlling the ten toe-curling vibrations from a distance, you might just be OK never being the same room again. (We kid.)

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3. satisfyer Curvy 3+

Best App-Controlled Vibrator

When your partner downloads the app on their phone, they can control the speed and pulsation pattern of this vibrator with just a tap of a button while you sit back and enjoy. It has 11 intensities and vibration patterns and can even be used without the app…but what’s the fun in that?

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4. we-vibe Pivot

Best for Men

You may be an ocean apart, but you can still give him the climax of his life with this vibrating penis ring. Also app-enabled, you will be able to control the pattern and intensity of the ring with a tap of your finger. And when you’re together again, you can use this in bed for stimulation for both of you. It has 11 speeds and functions to switch up pleasure modes.

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5. we-vibe Rave

Best App-Controlled and Manual Vibrator

Use this hand-held by yourself or pass over the app controller to a trusting party. It has an easy-to-hold shape, which is also narrow enough to make it optimal for movement. There are ten vibrational patterns to play around with. Plus, it’s designed to be super quiet.

Non App-Controlled Long-Distance Sex Toys

There’s a time and place for app-controlled toys. But sometimes you don’t want to relinquish all the control. A vid call with your partner and one of these toys IRL can make being far apart just as fun as being in the same bed. And hey, these toys are equally great to use on your own time too. We won’t tell.

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6. lovehoney Double O Heaven

Best for Dual Stimulation

Keep things interesting with this fancy, dual-action toy. Replete with a little remote control to handle without all the hands-on movement so it’s like your partner is right there doing all the work for you. It has three speeds and seven vibration patterns.

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7. better Love Rabbit Lily Vibrator

Best Overall

Complete with both G-spot and clitoral stimulation, this dual-motor vibrator boasts ten vibrational speeds and patterns. It’s completely waterproof which not only makes it easy to clean, but extremely fun to use while you’re getting clean (read: dirty) in the bathtub.

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8. lovehoney Love Bunny Suction Cup Rabbit Vibrator

Most Versatile Sex Toy

Suction this vibrator to the floor, wall or any hard surface to switch up the position for some self-pleasure. This six-inch shaft with a vibrating clitoral stimulator is totally waterproof and also compatible with a strap-on harness for when you two meet in person next. (*Books flight ASAP*)

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9. luna Personal Massager

Best Value

This USB rechargeable massager may seem simple in design, but it has 20 vibrational patterns and eight speeds to play around with as you engage in some heavy sexting. It’s no wonder this toy has received over 37,000 five-star ratings. Word the wise: Some reviewers do share that it can be frustrating cycling through all the patterns if you find yourself liking one or two, though.

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10. better Love Rose Vibrator

Best for Clitoral Stimulation

If focusing solely on clitoral stimulation is your jam, add this rose-shaped vibrator with ten vibration settings to your nightstand tableau (seriously, it’s so cute we’d mistake it for…well, not a vibrator). Plus, we love that the shape is easy to hold in the palm of your hand. Did we mention how cute it is?

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11. calexotics My Pod Vibrating Massager

Best for Travel

Being in an LDR roughly translates to more frequent flyer miles, right? So you’re probably in need of a trusty travel companion like this massager—which you can stowe in your carry-on. The My Pod comes in a rechargeable case which also has a built-in UV light for self-sanitation. Talk about all-in-one wellness.

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12. bijoux Indiscrets Clitherapy Sexting Balm

Best Orgasm Enhancer

Formulated with almond and coconut oil, this silky-smooth balm is supposed to increase blood flow to the clitoris to heighten sensations for even more powerful climaxes. The effects begin just seconds after application and last for about 30 minutes. Move over, Viagra.

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13. blush Novelties Temptasia Bellatrix

Best Dildo

The Temptasia Bellatrix dildo is a little over six inches long and nearly five inches wide. It suctions to any solid surface and can be used anally or vaginally. The curves of the toy will keep you on your toes with enhanced stimulation, and the smooth silicone is super easy to clean post-use.

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