You come home after a weekend away—which of the following three scenarios fills your heart with joy? Is it: A. That the house has been deep cleaned B. That there’s a beautifully-wrapped gift lying in the hallway or C. That your partner gives you a giant bear hug and won’t let go for an entire minute. If you answered A, then acts of service is probably your love language.
You appreciate it when people do things for you, especially when they tend to your needs (like your need for a clean home in order to feel relaxed or your need for a full tank of gas in order to get to work). Here’s what it means for you and your relationship if you’re all about the acts of service love language.