A PureWow Quiz

Everyone Has a Love Language: What's Yours?

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In his book The 5 Love Languages, marriage counselor and author Gary Chapman argues that everybody communicates love in one of five ways. So the key to any romantic partnership is being able to speak your partner’s love language. But do you even know what yours is? Find out…


you Feel The Most Secure With Your Partner When…

You’re doing things—anything—together

You’re texting constantly throughout the day

They’re telling you how awesome you are

You’re cuddling

You’re stressed out and they step in to help

They surprise you with something you’ve wanted


The Last Argument You Had With Your Partner Was Over…

The dishes

PDA (You'd like more of it)

Their smartphone addiction

Forgetting to get you an anniversary present

Their reaction to something you said

Your sex life


The One Word Your Partner Would Describe You As Is…








Pick A Couple:

New Line Cinema

Monica and Quincy from Love & Basketball

Warner Bros.

Kathleen Kelly and Joe Fox in You’ve Got Mail


María Elena, Cristina and Juan from Vicky Cristina Barcelona

Sony Pictures Classic

Elio and Oliver from Call Me By Your Name

Warner Bros. Pictures

Rachel and Nick from Crazy Rich Asians

Focus Features

Nic and Jules from The Kids Are Alright


It’s Your Birthday. What Do You Want From Your Partner?

A hotel room

Flowers with a note (read: minimum a paragraph or two)

The entire house cleaned with a romantic dinner on the table

A big awesome gift, or bust

Honestly, just a really nice dinner out sans any iPhone check-ins

A massage


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