It’s been four months since you started dating Jim. You’ve gone hiking, binged the entirety of Succession together and eaten at his favorite pizzeria so many times you feel like the staff knows you’re together. But you haven’t met any of his actual friends—let alone any family. Wait, you did run into his college buddy on the street, though! And they chatted for a bit…but now that you think about it, he glazed right over an introduction, didn’t he? And when you posted a pic of you two, he asked you to delete it. Welp, take a seat. We’re sorry to say it, but it sounds like this Jim character is stashing you. Stashing, or pocketing, is basically when someone you're dating hides you from their friends and family, and, unsurprisingly, it's super toxic. Below, find out how to deal if you suspect someone is stashing you.