This has been a year and understandably, a lot of us are feeling burnt out as 2020 comes to a close. So chances are, quite a few of the people on your list could use a mental health pick-me-up this holiday season. Lucky for you, we’ve talked to some therapists, read through a few studies and scoured the internet for presents that are bound to make anyone feel better—no matter what they’re going through. Here, 20 self care gifts for anyone looking to prioritize their mental health.

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1. Casper 15-Pound Weighted Blanket

Shopping for your perpetually anxious bestie or your insomniac self? Then you can’t go wrong with a weighted blanket. Their soothing pressure has been shown to reduce anxiety and help you stay asleep through the night.

Buy It ($179; $161)

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2. Intelligent Change the Five-Minute Journal

As the name implies, filling out this journal takes up just five minutes of your stressed out sister-in-law’s day. Every morning, she’ll be prompted to reflect on three things she’s grateful for and write down what would make the day great, plus an affirmation for the day. Then in the evening, she’ll be asked to write down three amazing things that happened that day and something that she could have done to make the day even better. According to reviewers, it makes adopting a more positive mindset a total breeze.

Buy It ($25)

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3. Lord Jones Hgh CBD Formula Bath Salts

The only thing that could make a warm bubble bath more relaxing? Adding CBD to the mix. This blend of epsom and Himalayan bath salts is infused with 240 mg of CBD that make it feel like you’re melting down the drain—in a good way.

Buy It ($65)


4. Otherland Daybed Scented Candle

Sarah Powers, LCSW, therapist at Tia, says candles are a great self care gift. When you give it to your friend or loved one, she suggests recommending that they create a ritual where any time they light the candle, it means it’s time for some self-care. This Otherland one has a light, floral scent that’s universally appealing.

Buy It ($36)


5. GenCrafts Watercolor Set

Psychotherapist and relationship expert Gin Love Thompson says that doing anything creative, including painting with watercolors, can help calm the mind. So why not gift this set to your work wife who’s always saying she needs some “me time”? It includes 48 different watercolor paints, two brush pens and 15 sheets of watercolor paper, aka everything she needs to start her new hobby.

$35 at Amazon


6. Affirmators! Affirmation Cards to Help You Help Yourself - Without the Self-Helpy-Ness

Sure, affirmations can be kind of cheesy—but these aren’t. Instead, they’re clever statements that are bound to make your gift recipient chuckle when they read them out loud.

$12 at Amazon


7. Real Therapy Pathway Experience

One of the best ways to prioritize your mental health is, of course, going to therapy. And right now, therapy startup Real is offering three months of membership to its program for $95. Sounds like the perfect present for someone who’s been talking about finding a therapist.

Buy It ($102; $95)

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8. The Sill Monstera Deliciosa

According to a study in the Journal of Physiological Anthropology, interacting with houseplants can actually reduce feelings of stress and make you feel more soothed. Which means not only will this Monstera look great in Gram’s living room, it’ll actually help her feel more relaxed.

Buy It ($59)


9. Florensi Meditation Cushion

Similarly, a study published in JAMA Internal Medicine found that meditation can ease symptoms of anxiety, depression and pain. So practicing it on the reg could actually have a positive impact on mental health. Our advice? Give your best friend who’s always forgetting to use her Calm app a meditation cushion so she has no more excuses.

$45 at Amazon


10. Sagely Naturals Calm & Centered CBD Roll-On Essential Oil

Essential oils can serve as a reminder to slow down, take some deep breaths and get back in tune with your body, says Lindsey Wirht, LMSW, therapist at Tia. She notes that using essential oils can be especially helpful before bed. Yeah, we’re definitely going to gift this CBD-infused roll-on to our partner who’s always tossing and turning.
Buy It ($30)


11. Therabox Self Care Subscription Box

Each shipment of this subscription box contains a research-inspired therapeutic activity, plus six to eight wellness goodies designed to spark joy and decrease stress. Oh, and did we mention it’s totally curated by therapists?

Buy It ($31/Month)

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12. Mindfulness Card Set

This colorful box is packed with over 50 different prompts and exercises that fall into one of four categories: Rest and balance, curiosity and joy, insight and awareness and kindness. Each card encourages you to be in the moment, while also introducing you to new self care practices. Yup, your mom’s going to love it.

Buy It ($17)


13. Madewell (Re)sourced Fleece Jacket

“The physical comfort of a sweater can also bring emotional comfort, which is key when you are in need of some self care,” explains Powers. She recommends gifting anyone in your life who’s working on their mental health a cozy sweater or sweatshirt, like this fleece one, to make them feel a little more at ease.

Buy It ($128; $90)


14. Little Words Project Hope Bracelet

Sometimes, having a little reminder on your wrist is enough to give you a bit of a mental health boost. If you’re shopping for someone going through a difficult time, consider getting them this bracelet with the word hope on it. Every time they look down, they’ll be reminded to stay hopeful.

Buy It ($25)


15. Maybe You Should Talk to Someone: A Therapist, Her Therapist, and Our Lives Revealed by Lori Gottlieb

Maybe your brother wants to prioritize his mental health, but he’s a little intimidated by the idea of going to therapy. This book might be just the encouragement he needs. In Maybe You Should Talk to Someone, therapist Lori Gottlieb chronicles her experiences as a therapist who realizes she herself needs therapy. It’s a beautiful peek inside the process.

$17 at Amazon


16. Mount Lai Gua Sha Facial Lifting Tool

Many of us hold tension in our faces—Gua Sha massage can help with that. Gliding the stone along your face relaxes the facial muscles while also minimizing the appearance of wrinkles and puffiness. It’s basically an at-home spa treatment, so you know your MIL will be a fan.

Buy It ($28)


17. Gaiam Beginner's Yoga Starter Kit

Yoga and mental health are more closely linked than you might think. A study published in the International Journal of Yoga found that practicing 90 minutes of yoga once or twice a week can reduce anxiety both short- and long-term. Sounds like a pretty good excuse to finally invest in your own mat.

$30 at Amazon


18. Papier Wellness Journal

This journal has 12-weeks-worth of pages to help you monitor your habits, meals, water intake, sleep patterns and more. There’s also space to set an intention for the day and plan out your self care routine. Giving this as a gift? You can customize the cover for a sweet personal touch.

Buy It ($33)


19. Sterling Children's Super Scratch Art Pads: Nature

If the tediousness of adult coloring books stresses you out, try scratch art instead, suggests Rachel Klechevsky, LMSW, therapist at Tia. She uses these books herself and finds tracing the lines to be extremely satisfying. “The best part about this activity is that it’s mindless; there’s no decision making, which is a gift during busy or overwhelming times.”
$13 at Amazon

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20. Book of the Month 3-Month Subscription

“Reading can lower blood pressure and heart rate, sending us into a meditative state,” explains Julia Hunt, LCSW, therapist at Tia. It can also help us with sleep, self-esteem, stress and depression, she adds. With a Book of the Month subscription, your gift recipient will get to choose one of five brand-new books to have delivered to their door each month. Now that’s what we call a stress-free gift.

Buy It ($50)

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