Every holiday season, amid the hustle and bustle of checking gifts off my list and still snail mailing paper holiday cards, I make a point to watch a recurring rotation of beloved holiday movies ranging from oddball favorites like While You Were Sleeping and Christmas Vacation to timeless classics such as White Christmas and Home Alone. Without fail, the ritual of watching these films puts me in the spirit, but more importantly, provides a tiny bit of breathing space during a chaotic December season.
I Rewatched ‘The Family Stone’ and Realized I Was So, So Wrong About It
The sequel is coming
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Updated Nov 5, 2026
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Last year—in the wake of the passing of actress and Hollywood legend Diane Keaton—I added another Christmas classic to the queue: The Family Stone. Now, with news of an upcoming sequel, called The Families Stone, coming down the pike, I couldn’t wait to watch it again.
Don’t get me wrong: I watched this film, which beyond Keaton stars Sarah Jessica Parker, Dermot Mulroney, Rachel McAdams and many more, in theaters when it first came out in 2005. But, at the time, it didn’t leave me feeling uplifted in the way I wanted it to, which meant it didn’t make the cut for my annual must-watch list.
A dramedy about the eccentric Stone family’s yearly Christmas gathering, a wrench gets thrown in with the addition of uptight Meredith (played by Parker), who is joining her boyfriend Everett (Mulroney) at his home in Connecticut for the first time. Right from the outset, the film’s matriarch, Sybil (played by Keaton), isn’t having it—her son deserves better!—but also, Meredith, in her quest for perfectionism keeps. getting. everything. wrong. (To the point it’s almost painful to watch.)
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Twenty-one years ago, perhaps in a post-Sex and the City world (the show ended in 2004), I was rooting too hard for SJP and also had bizarre expectations of rom-com plots, but this film mostly just bummed me out. Fast forward to my recent re-watch, and I can fully admit I was wrong.
Quite frankly, I initially missed the nuance—delivered skillfully by this brilliant ensemble cast—of the movie’s sub-plots (merging culinary traditions in the kitchen, discussing conservative vs. liberal ideals at the table, the effort to put it all aside for the sake of family togetherness) to the point that I was bowled over by them when I decided to give this film another shot. Yes, The Family Stone leans a bit hard on stereotypes and, at times, quicker-than-comfortable pacing to achieve its message, but its universality is clear: Family unity is complicated and the joyful moments (cut to SJP spilling her Morton Family Strata in the kitchen) are often the result of both laughter and tears.
But there’s one more Keaton-centered piece of wisdom that required nearly a full box of tissues for me this year: How the household matriarch is the one who, for better or worse, we lean on and, who consistently sets the tone.
Spoiler alert, we learn in the film that Sybil is quite sick, and, in fact, isn’t there the following Christmas as the Stone family gathers again. (In case it’s not clear, I’m still reeling from the loss of the real life Keaton last year.) As I watched, with my own chaotic holiday family gatherings drawing near, I was reminded that, yes, there will be squabbles and keyed up talk about politics, not to mention overly charged moments, but (but!) the point is togetherness. The petty differences are all rather fleeting, no? The Family Stone serves as the perfect reminder of that.
As for what the sequel will look like? That’s still TBD. All we know so far is that it will revisit the Stone family 20 years after Sybil’s death. But when the family gathers for Christmas, there’s some unexpected news from dad (played by Craig T. Nelson): He has fallen in love again. (So far, Sarah Jessica Parker, Rachel McAdams, Claire Danes and more are all set to return.)
In the meantime, I’m happy to prioritize the original. It’s officially a must-watch this year—and every year—going forward.
