In fact, as I dug further into homestead core on TikTok, I was reminded of fridgescaping—a trend I covered earlier this year, where people styled the insides of their refrigerators like design showrooms. On the surface, it was harmless. But beneath that was something troublesome: the expectation that women should turn even their stress into something aspirational. Homestead core works the same way. It’s not just survival—it’s survival with a color palette and an affiliate link.
It goes to show that this movement isn’t about “taking grandmacore and cottagecore to the next level,” as the Yelp report suggests. It’s about regression. We have more access to advanced technology than any generation in history—AI that can code, satellites that track atmospheric shifts in real time—yet people are growing lettuce on their windowsills like it’s 1932. And the scariest part? How social media flattens our anxiety into aesthetics. Suddenly, real economic pressure looks like a lifestyle preference, where struggling to survive becomes “farm-to-table living.”
So no, I’m not anti-garden. I’m not anti-jam jars. If homesteading brings you joy, I love that for you. But let’s also acknowledge that for many, it isn’t a hobby—it’s a coping mechanism. And what worries me most is how social media reframes this response to systemic breakdown as lifestyle inspiration.
If this is where we are—raising chickens on balconies, harvesting tomatoes as contingency plans—then the real question isn’t how to start a homestead. It’s why so many of us feel we have to.