What It Actually Means When Your 13-Year-Old Says ‘Call Taylor’

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I love learning foreign languages, and the one I have been trying to master lately is the strange tongue spoken by my tween daughter and her Gen Alpha peers. If you spend any time around today’s youth, you will likely encounter some unfamiliar slang phrases whose meaning you can’t even glean with context clues. Some of it, like skibidi, actually has no meaning at all. For this reason, I get particularly excited when I hear a new phrase that actually makes some sense. So, for today’s lesson, we will break down what it actually means when your 13-year-old says ‘Call Taylor.’ Read on for the full scoop.

Before we dive into what ‘Call Taylor’ means, I will give you a scenario in which this was running through my own daughter’s mind (though she didn’t say it, exactly). My 11-year-old tween has a very keen interest in art and attended an art camp where she was one of the youngest participants. She got a bit of an aspirational-friend-crush on a 15-year-old girl at the camp who was just “so cool in every way” and “insanely talented at figure drawing.” I could tell she wanted to make friends with this girl and learn from her, so I said, “why don’t you just go up to her, compliment her art and ask her if she could give you some tips to improve your figure drawing?” What followed was a huge eye roll and a sarcastic, “yeahhh, OK, mom.” Translation? “Call Taylor.”

Indeed, the anecdote above can serve as a working definition of ‘call Taylor,’ a slang phrase that kids use when their parents are giving them what they think is completely unrealistic or out-of-touch advice. It all started back in 2016 (yep, you really are that out of touch) in an episode from the 12th season of the reality show Keeping Up With the Kardashians, in which Kris Jenner and Kim Kardashian were discussing the ongoing feud between Kanye West and Taylor Swift. Kris’s advice? Why don’t you just call Taylor up and try to make amends? As you can see, if you watch the clip above, Kim took a hard pass on that suggestion.

In short, if your child says ‘call Taylor’ to you, it’s a parody of your parenting that is most likely inspired by the fact that you are trying to fix a problem for them with a solution that sounds ridiculous. Let’s just say that Kim’s response to her mother in this episode of Keeping Up With the Kardashians resonated with a lot of people, and not just Gen Alpha kids. There are tons of TikToks (with text overlay and reality show audio) in which Gen Zers give examples of times a parent gave them absurd advice.

The takeaway? If you don’t want your offspring to tell you ‘call Taylor,’ then you should probably just keep your two cents to yourself.


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