If the past three years have taught us anything, it's what weddings are really about. Not baby's breath, warm uplighting or linen table runners, as Instagram might have you believe, but a commitment to the person standing in front of you. More couples are opting for micro weddings, intimate gatherings that honor their partnership without the big crowd (and even bigger bill). And while micro weddings spiked at the height of the pandemic, scaled-back celebrations are here to stay. Because you’re not going to look back on the Best Day of Your Life™️ and lament a lack of petal confetti or a wedding hashtag. But you might wish you’d spent more time with the people you love. Below, find the best tips for planning your micro wedding, according to planners who specialize in small soirees.