You know your wife’s love language is physical touch and yours is acts of service, that she’s the passionate Scorpio to your intuitive Cancer and that her confident ESTJ Myers-Briggs type fits juuuust right with your dependable ISTJ. When things are good, they’re great. But why is it that when you fight it feels like the end of the world? Maybe you’re fighting wrong.
Though conflict with your partner is par for the course, doing it productively can not only make your relationship more resilient, it can also help water the nooks and crannies of your partnership that don’t always see the light. So how do you fight better? It’s all about knowing your Enneagram combination. We spoke to Enneagram expert and founder of Your Enneagram Coach, Beth McCord, on how to do just that.