Something was off about my mom’s 13th birthday cake; it was a bit chewy, maybe stringy? “Is there coconut in this?” she remembers asking, only to see my grandmother’s grin broaden. It didn’t taste like coconut, but it wasn’t bad. She took another bite.
By then, my grandmother’s grin had turned Cheshire cat-like. Something was up.
“It’s sauerkraut,” she announced.
Sauerkraut?! Really? In a chocolate cake?! She’d read it was the secret to moister desserts and decided to give it a whirl. She was right to keep the secret ingredient a surprise for as long as she could; the mental hurdle of a fermented cabbage and cocoa pairing was too much for most people. But that day—and that cake—would become a family legend, retold at nearly every birthday party both because of its shock value—the look on people’s faces delighted us all—and because it summed up my grandmother’s personality pretty succinctly. She never shied away from trying new things, especially if it led to a great story to tell later. And she loved adding a little mischief into the world, a trait she possessed her whole life (exhibit B: getting in trouble as a kid for putting the phrase, “it’s so hot you could fry an egg out here!” to the test, attempting a scramble on the dashboard of a relative’s car).
Growing up, the mere thought of the cake disgusted me. But now, five years after she died, I wish I would’ve gotten to try it.