Right now in America, there is a COVID vaccine available for every single person who’s eligible to receive it. And yet, as of the beginning of last month, an estimated 93 million eligible Americans remain unvaccinated. For those of us who did our part and got the vaccine, it can be incredibly frustrating to talk to the folks who refuse to do so. It can also be extremely tempting to lash out at an unvaccinated person when the topic comes up (don’t tell us you haven’t at least fantasized about it). But, as cathartic as it may feel, attacking and shaming people into doing what you want them to do is counterproductive. There are, however, some things you can say that might push the needle (pun intended) a little further in your desired direction. Here, three things to say to someone who’s hesitant about the vaccine, and the one thing you should avoid mentioning.