Welp, you’ve started seeing *that guy* again. You know the one. He makes you feel like you’re the only girl in the world…for about five weeks. Then out of nowhere, he drops the “I’m not looking for anything serious” bomb, and it’s back to the dating grind. And you wonder: Why oh why do I always go for the same guys? Of course, everyone has a type. You can't help but swoon for a scruffy guitar player with a Bernadoodle on his Hinge profile. But how is it that you constantly find yourself in different versions of the same relationship? While the guitar player might change, the scenario is always the same: receiving ‘you up’ snaps at 3 a.m. and hooking up with him in a toilet-paperless apartment.
It all feels very…familiar. And there’s actually a reason for that—it’s called déjà vu-ing.