We’ve gone to approximately 4 million weddings in the last few years, and probably half of them included honeymoon registries in addition to the usual Crate & Barrel deal. While we’ve personally never thought twice about it, it’s come to our attention that this is a hot wedding etiquette topic with two fierce takes: Some say it’s totally OK to ask for scuba lessons in Bali…and others think it’s completely tasteless. Here, both sides of the story and our ultimate conclusion.

