Whether you’re giving a presentation or advocating for a two-week vacation, the way you stick the landing can make all the difference when it comes to outcome. Or so says Stacia Crawford, CEO and founder of Stay Ready Media, a public relations firm that offers media training to help clients hone their communication skills.
As she explains, a rambler who responds to questions with a series of disorganized thoughts is less likely to clearly articulate their point, and ultimately less likely to get what they want. For example: when asking for a raise, a rambler might take 10 minutes before getting to their desired dollar amount, or might trail off after starting it, kinda sorta mumbling about the cost of daycare tuition.
On the flip side, a closer leaves everyone with a clear and concise understanding of their point or message. “It’s the difference between putting a period at the end of your sentence vs. raising the inflection of your voice as you wind down the argument you’re trying to make,” Crawford says. “The latter makes you sound unsure and gives the impression that you are asking a question instead of making a statement.”
So how do you behave more like a closer when your subconscious is steering you toward rambling? Crawford offers these suggestions: