Nordstrom’s New Self-Love Pop-In Is All About Sexual Wellness

While it might looks like nothing more than a chic accessory, this pendant necklace actually doubles as a vibrator. And a really popular one at that; it’s racked up over 700 five-star reviews on Vesper’s site. The rechargeable bullet is simple yet features three powerful intensity levels, in addition to a pulsing setting. Oh, and don’t worry about the stainless-steel feeling cold—reviewers say the warming feature works like a charm.

Simply plug this warming device in, pop one of the included lube or massage oil pods inside, and it'll gently heat the liquid and dispense it into your hand. “The warmth is amazing! [I] couldn’t imagine ever going back to a cold, messy, sticky experience in bed,” writes one reviewer. Another notes that the sleek design is discrete enough to be left on your nightstand 24/7.

OK, so a soothing cream isn’t exactly the sexiest thing in the world, but sometimes it’s 100 percent necessary. Whether you’re dealing with itching down there post-shave, or swelling after a particularly painful waxing experience, this blend of arnica, chamomile and calendula is sure to provide some relief.

If you’re having trouble getting in the mood, these Foria bath salts might be just what you need. They’re infused with 200 milligrams of CBD, plus cacao and rose to relax your body and help you ease into a more sensual state of mind. To really kick things up a notch, draw a bath, light a few candles, pour a tablespoon of this soak into the tub and invite your partner to join you.

Planning a weekend getaway for Valentine’s Day? Consider packing this Staycation Kit, which includes a travel-size bottle of organic lubricant and five ultra-thin lubricated condoms. The lube is made from a pH-balanced, aloe-based formula, so it’s less likely to cause issues or irritation for even the most sensitive skin.

Made from natural, plant-based oils, this unscented massage oil glides on easily for some relaxing foreplay. Place it in the aforementioned warmer and it’ll make for an even more spa-like experience. “I’ve tried a lot of different massage oils and none of them have been as good as Spoil Me! It’s smooth, doesn’t get sticky, and a little goes a long way,” notes one shopper.

Quim’s Happy Calm Everyday Oil is a vaginal moisturizer made from simple, natural ingredients that won’t irritate the skin in that sensitive area. Plus, its blend of apricot, hazelnut, sweet almond, MCT and olive oils, plus calendula, violet, damiana (and 50 milligrams of CBD) smells amazing. The brand recommends applying three to five pumps whenever you need a bit of hydration. Heads up: This oil should only be used externally.