Congratulations! You have just been broken up with, and you are now the proud owner of a broken heart. Flummoxed as to the care and feeding of this newly crushed organ? (Ice cream bingeing or listless food refusal, which will it be?) What to do about all those pesky feelings and thoughts: Should you send your love a tone poem pleading for reconciliation, or alternatively take a baseball bat to their car? (Beyoncé did it in a video so that makes it OK, right?) We looked to a wide range of experts, scientific studies and also an aesthetic nurse to answer some of the most-asked questions about this new life-stage you’re in…which we promise is growth even though it feels like death.