You’re prattling on about your $8,000 roof repair, but is your financial planner really listening…or stewing over the thing you said two minutes ago. According to Jacki Purcell, a financial advisor for Northwestern Mutual, there are things a good financial planner loves to hear, but there are also a couple of talking points she’d rather you check at the door. Here, the details on what to bring up (and what to avoid).